A while ago I posted a blog entry on tumbler with the title "It's not about porn". Here I explained how my attraction and desire for black men not only revolve around sex or porn fantasies, but primarily is about a special bond that only exists between us white girls and black men. So... Does that mean that I'm not a "real" snowbunny since snowbunnies are often defined and depicted as sex-crazed white women?
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I guess some of you have clear opinions about this question, but in my world I AM a genuine snowbunny no matter where my primary focus is! Now don't get me wrong! I do have sexual fantasies about black men and I am sexually attracted to black men and to be honest, I know that I am willing to do things with black men in bed that I have refused the white guys I have been with in my past! But to me there's a whole other aspect of the attraction between us white girls and black men that can't be defined as something sexual. To me this attraction is more about how black guys are more masculine, determined and protective of their girls. The strong contrasts between you black guys and us white girls makes us feel more fulfilled as women and makes it easier for us to express our femininity and our desires to be loved, cherished and protected. Does these feelings make me any less of a snowbunny? I don't think so and in the end, it's all about how black men perceive me and how I feel inside! Not about what random white guys think about me.